Last week the social media world buzzed with the story of Ted Williams, the Man with the Golden Voice. It was an interesting story of an individual with a specialized talent, his fall to My how an innocent story can turn into a fight. This week he and his daughter have been detained by Los Angeles police for an altercation at a hotel and the Columbus Dispatch dispute carries on.
Why is it so hard to recognize positive news for what it is? Why do some feel a need to find an opposing view or create a different storyline?
The truth is many people are envious of celebrity and the whole magical series of events that lead to one person or act being recognized over another. We make judgments that our actions, causes or pursuits were equally worthy and wonder why we weren't recognized first and we look for the rest of the story. Perhaps subconsciously, we seek to associate with others who may have been wronged in the same manner, even when it leads to gossip. Persons who perceive they have been wronged are not always kind.
We build our circle of friends and spheres of influence on our similarities, not our differences. That's why it is so important that we look for positive stories and promote the good in what we see and do. We cannot fall into the "it should have been me" mindset. When we are kind and generous, we find that others are kind and generous too
Tell yourself this simple truth right now: I am worthy of praise. I can celebrate the success of others, acknowledge my own success, and continue on the journey to make our world a better place to live.
Optimist Clubs, other service clubs and trade associations can help you share your success with others. I hope you consider building your sphere of influence by joining one. There is comfort and strength in belonging to an organization that exists to make sure positive things happen in their community.
